2. Love

I thought it would be fitting to write a blog about love on Valentines day. The day where all lovers shine. But all people feel love in many different ways. Its crazy that "love" is in so many faucets of society such as movies, music, art, pictures, letters, novels, and so much more. But how well do we all really know love, what is TRUE love? What is NOT love? Sometimes its nearly impossible to tell. 

Many people now a days, are corrupting the true meaning of love, unknowingly. People think that being *OBSESSED* with someone, is the same as being in love with them. Of course, we all WANT our love to be real and genuine. But when you look at it at an objective logical view, its sometimes far from it. Those who are obsessed, usually are overly insecure, jealous, angry, want everything done THEIR way, and get violent when the spouse doesn't follow their every whim. Being obsessed with someone is NOT the same as being in love with someone. Think.... Think about your last few relationships. If you endured pain and heart break, and either stayed with them or took them back. You were merely obsessed with the IDEA of loving that person, not the actual guy/girl. We were not taught how to properly love and how to have positive emotional connections. That is one of society's BIGGEST blunder, and these toxic soap operas make it so much worse.

What is TRUE love? True love is about being the better person, compromising, and sometimes sacrifice's. Humans are selfish creatures, we want it all to ourselves. But that's not how it always works in the real world, sometimes the love you had was simply an obsession, or they were not worthy of your love, or there WAS love but no logical connection. They say all you need is love, that has been proven FALSE. You need so much more, such as a logical sound mind. Not sure if your love is true? Here is a GUARANTEED test that will prove it, RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW. 

IF you love a person with all your heart, you are positive you do, of course your love is TRUE right? Well imagine this, what if the relationship didn't work out and they found someone else. If it was a fake love OBSESSION, you will become very angry, bitter, resentful, stalker-ish, hate them, stalk their social media, etc.. Then you never loved them, move on, your wasting your time. IF you just want them happy, no matter what, EVEN if its without you.. Then that is TRUE love. To TRULY love someone, their happiness will bring you happiness, regardless of who they are with. In conclusion, love yourself first so that you can love others, because you AND them deserve it. Then at long last, you will find TRUE LOVE. Happy Valentines Day! :)